{"id":231,"date":"2024-10-02T19:29:04","date_gmt":"2024-10-02T17:29:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/rotarytransilvania.ro\/?p=231"},"modified":"2025-02-24T22:38:02","modified_gmt":"2025-02-24T20:38:02","slug":"cum-sa-umbli-cu-manusi-descult-de-alex-rusu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/rotarytransilvania.ro\/index.php\/2024\/10\/02\/cum-sa-umbli-cu-manusi-descult-de-alex-rusu\/","title":{"rendered":"Cum s\u0103 umbli cu m\u0103nu\u0219i, descul\u021b"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t
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Totul se rezum\u0103, p\u00e2n\u0103 la urm\u0103, la realitatea pe care \u00eentr-o oarecare m\u0103sur\u0103 o cre\u0103m, iar sinceritatea devine masca autoironiz\u0103rii, c\u00e2nd pricepem c\u0103 adev\u0103rul e cea mai bun\u0103 minciun\u0103.<\/b><\/em><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t

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Coboram \u00eentr-o sear\u0103 o strad\u0103 prost luminat\u0103 \u0219i abrupt\u0103, iar sub o d\u00e2r\u0103 portocalie de lumin\u0103, era parcat\u0103 un pic str\u00e2mb, o ma\u0219in\u0103 minuscul\u0103, deranjant de ro\u0219ie, \u00een care \u00eenc\u0103peau maxim 2 persoane de statur\u0103 medie. M-am oprit l\u00e2ng\u0103 portier\u0103, \u0219i f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 vreau am citit num\u0103rul scrijelit pe pl\u0103cu\u021ba ruginit\u0103, ce p\u0103rea c\u0103 se scurgea de pe capot\u0103. Scria \u201cIF 01 XXS\u201d, \u0219i atunci am avut un moment \u00een care am sim\u021bit c\u0103 m\u0103 str\u00e2ng toate hainele, de parc\u0103 \u0219i-ar fi amintit dintr-o dat\u0103, c\u0103 ar trebui s\u0103 fie resemnate, s\u0103 se refuleze chinuite de ideea de a fi purtate cum ar trebui.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>

R\u0103m\u0103sesem nemi\u0219cat l\u00e2ng\u0103 ghemotocul de fier forjat, g\u00e2ndindu-m\u0103 la faptul c\u0103 sinceritatea, \u00een toat\u0103 splendoarea ei de baz\u0103 a moralit\u0103\u021bii, reflect\u0103 un adev\u0103r pe care putem sau nu, s\u0103-l promov\u0103m la absolut, practic ignor\u00e2nd sensul de baz\u0103 al acesteia, \u0219i anume, emanciparea empatiei. Practic atunci c\u00e2nd sinceritatea devine radical\u0103, se transform\u0103 \u00een paranoie \u0219i fric\u0103 \u0219i ne osific\u0103 g\u00e2ndirea. Totodat\u0103, diploma\u021bia r\u0103m\u00e2ne undeva la mijloc, adic\u0103 ea reprezint\u0103 un fel de cale, prin care r\u0103m\u00e2nem neutri \u0219i nu ajungem a\u0219a aproape de extreme, de\u0219i sf\u00e2r\u0219im de cele mai multe ori prin a rupe mai mult din noi.<\/span><\/p>

\u00centrebarea r\u0103m\u00e2ne totu\u0219i aceea\u0219i, cum putem oare s\u0103 r\u0103m\u00e2nem sinceri, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 ne pierdem empatia sau discern\u0103m\u00e2ntul? Am putea spune c\u0103 ar depinde de situa\u021bie, \u00eens\u0103 de cele mai multe ori situa\u021biile depind mai tare de noi \u0219i cum alegem s\u0103 le privim. De exemplu, suntem \u00eenv\u0103\u021ba\u021bi s\u0103 oferim un respect din oficiu unor persoane, s\u0103 le trat\u0103m cu sinceritate \u0219i mai ales, s\u0103 avem grij\u0103 cum vorbim, s\u0103 fim diploma\u021bi. \u00cens\u0103 \u0219i aici e vorba de o dualitate ambigu\u0103 care \u00ee\u0219i are originea \u00een fric\u0103, de cele mai multe ori nu reu\u0219im s\u0103 facem diferen\u021ba dintre respect \u0219i fric\u0103, intr\u00e2nd \u00eentr-un cerc vicios, totodat\u0103 descentraliz\u00e2nd centrul unde impregn\u0103m p\u00e2n\u0103 la urm\u0103, repulsia fa\u021b\u0103 de minciun\u0103 sau orice s-ar \u00eendep\u0103rta de ideea de adev\u0103r. Nevoia de a ne ancora de un ideal sau un principiu care ar putea s\u0103 ne fereasc\u0103 de o existen\u021b\u0103 pe care s\u0103 o \u00een\u021belegem \u0219i mai pu\u021bin reprezint\u0103 unul dintre sensurile vie\u021bii.<\/span><\/p>

Toate acestea fiind spuse, sinceritatea pare a fi unul dintre singurele aspecte pe care le putem oarecum controla, de cele mai multe ori vrem s\u0103 fim \u00een primul r\u00e2nd sinceri cu noi \u00een\u0219ine, f\u0103c\u00e2nd asta, sper\u0103m ca restul lumii s\u0103 ne arate aceea\u0219i fa\u021b\u0103 a adev\u0103rului, dar cu fiecare clip\u0103 vedem cum adev\u0103rul difer\u0103 \u00een func\u021bie de om. Nimic nu r\u0103m\u00e2ne la fel de simplu ca succesiunea zilelor \u0219i nop\u021bilor. Ajungem s\u0103 deviem de la ideea de baz\u0103, s\u0103 \u00eenflorim pove\u0219ti care nu erau de fapt, at\u00e2t de interesante, s\u0103 alegem c\u00e2nd putem spune exact ce avem pe suflet sau c\u00e2nd suntem nevoi\u021bi s\u0103 ne punem m\u00e2nu\u0219i \u0219i s\u0103 z\u00e2mbim apatic. De\u0219i sun\u0103 cam r\u0103u, cel mai important e s\u0103 \u00een\u021belegem c\u0103 a avea dreptate nu e tocmai cea mai bun\u0103 concluzie.<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t

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Exist\u0103 \u0219i o fa\u021b\u0103 un pic ipocrit\u0103 a societ\u0103\u021bii, adic\u0103 sinceritatea este promovat\u0103 \u0219i ridicat\u0103 \u00een sl\u0103vi, de\u0219i ajunge s\u0103 fie impus\u0103 de ceilal\u021bi. Astfel \u00eenv\u0103\u021b\u0103m s\u0103 fim sinceri \u201ccum ar trebui\u201d, s\u0103 \u00een\u021belegem ce aspecte care ne privesc pot fi v\u0103zute drept un numitor comun. Totul se reduce p\u00e2n\u0103 la urm\u0103 la nevoia de schimbare constant\u0103, astfel ajungem s\u0103 ne autodistrugem prin diploma\u021bia fa\u021b\u0103 de lucrurile care ne deranjeaz\u0103, ferm con\u0219tien\u021bi c\u0103 ne transform\u0103m \u00een altcineva. Paradoxal, sinceritatea se strecoar\u0103 \u00eentr-un \u201cpseudo-hedonism\u201d ce ofer\u0103 o lini\u0219te de moment prin care suntem p\u0103c\u0103li\u021bi, p\u00e2n\u0103 la urm\u0103 de noi \u00een\u0219ine, c\u0103 facem progrese reale \u0219i c\u0103 ajungem pe placul lumii, de\u0219i aceasta practic nici nu exist\u0103 cu adev\u0103rat \u00een jurul nostru.<\/p>

Cea mai bun\u0103 cale prin care putem spune c\u0103 suntem sinceri ar fi otr\u0103virea cu principii \u0219i speran\u021b\u0103 pentru c\u0103, \u00een\u021beleg\u00e2nd de fapt rolul acestora, avem mai multe ocazii s\u0103 ne ancor\u0103m de orice f\u0103r\u00e2m\u0103 de adev\u0103r.<\/p>

A\u0219adar, cel mai s\u0103n\u0103tos lucru pe care l-am putea face ar fi dezvoltarea unei proprii persoane, implicit cultiv\u00e2nd o sinceritate bazat\u0103 pe empatie, \u00een primul r\u00e2nd, fa\u021b\u0103 de noi \u00een\u0219ine, \u0219i mai apoi, fa\u021b\u0103 de oamenii \u0219i lumea noastr\u0103. Chiar dac\u0103 putem avea impresia c\u0103 ne \u00eendep\u0103rt\u0103m de singura realitate pe care o cunoa\u0219tem, cel mai important e s\u0103 \u0219tim, c\u0103 p\u00e2n\u0103 la urm\u0103, adev\u0103rul r\u0103m\u00e2ne cea mai bun\u0103 minciun\u0103, \u0219i nimic nu e vreodat\u0103 b\u0103tut \u00een cuie.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Totul se rezum\u0103, p\u00e2n\u0103 la urm\u0103, la realitatea pe care \u00eentr-o oarecare m\u0103sur\u0103 o cre\u0103m, iar sinceritatea devine masca autoironiz\u0103rii, c\u00e2nd pricepem c\u0103 adev\u0103rul e cea mai bun\u0103 minciun\u0103. Coboram \u00eentr-o sear\u0103 o strad\u0103 prost luminat\u0103 \u0219i abrupt\u0103, iar sub o d\u00e2r\u0103 portocalie de lumin\u0103, era parcat\u0103 un pic str\u00e2mb, o ma\u0219in\u0103 minuscul\u0103, deranjant de […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":17,"featured_media":232,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-231","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-social"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/rotarytransilvania.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/231","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/rotarytransilvania.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/rotarytransilvania.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rotarytransilvania.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/17"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rotarytransilvania.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=231"}],"version-history":[{"count":15,"href":"https:\/\/rotarytransilvania.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/231\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":379,"href":"https:\/\/rotarytransilvania.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/231\/revisions\/379"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rotarytransilvania.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/232"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/rotarytransilvania.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=231"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rotarytransilvania.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=231"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rotarytransilvania.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=231"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}