{"id":247,"date":"2024-10-14T13:34:19","date_gmt":"2024-10-14T11:34:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/rotarytransilvania.ro\/?p=247"},"modified":"2025-02-22T20:12:38","modified_gmt":"2025-02-22T18:12:38","slug":"reactia-intarziata-a-unei-compasiuni-premature-de-alex-rusu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/rotarytransilvania.ro\/index.php\/2024\/10\/14\/reactia-intarziata-a-unei-compasiuni-premature-de-alex-rusu\/","title":{"rendered":"Reac\u021bia \u00eent\u00e2rziat\u0103 a unei compasiuni premature"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ai 4 ani \u0219i ver\u0219i din gre\u0219eal\u0103 un bol mai mare ca \u021beasta ta direct pe canapeaua nou\u0103 din piele autentic\u0103. Ai 7 ani \u0219i \u00eenve\u021bi c\u0103 oamenii pot refuza s\u0103 se joace cu tine. Ai 12 ani \u0219i asi\u0219ti pentru prima oar\u0103 la o b\u00e2rf\u0103 bine detaliat\u0103, imediat dup\u0103 masa de Cr\u0103ciun la care to\u021bi r\u00e2deau, iar tu te jucai sub mas\u0103 cu ni\u0219te veri\u0219ori c\u0103rora nu le po\u021bi re\u021bine numele. Trec ni\u0219te ani \u0219i \u00een\u021belegi c\u0103 nu e\u0219ti un \u00eentre\u021binut al sor\u021bii. Ajungi la o v\u00e2rst\u0103 \u0219i ceilal\u021bi te consider\u0103 copt din punct de vedere moral \u0219i fizic, de\u0219i nu sim\u021bi c\u0103 ar fi \u00een competen\u021ba ta s\u0103 schimbi lumea sau oamenii ce r\u0103m\u00e2n ca ni\u0219te copaci l\u00e2ng\u0103 p\u0103dure.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00cen tot acest timp dedicat unei dezvolt\u0103ri dezinvolte, \u00ee\u021bi cre\u0219te o branhie undeva sub scalp \u0219i \u00eenve\u021bi cum s\u0103 respiri sub ap\u0103, \u0219i mai important, pricepi c\u0103 era vorba de sentimentul cli\u0219eic de inferioritate. \u00cel dezvoltai zilnic merg\u00e2nd la \u0219coal\u0103, iar de la dresaj ie\u0219eai m\u00e2ndru cu o m\u00e2n\u0103 de nume de oameni pe care \u00eei idolatrizezi, sper\u00e2nd c\u0103 vei ajunge \u0219i tu un om \u00een toat\u0103 firea.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Te obi\u0219nuie\u0219ti s\u0103 la\u0219i loc liber \u0219i s\u0103 te scapi de orice posibil risc ce le poate da altora vreun motiv s\u0103 cread\u0103 c\u0103 le e\u0219ti inferior. Distan\u021ba dintre adul\u021bi \u0219i copii, mai ales dintre cei pe care \u00eei au \u00een grij\u0103, se \u00eempacheteaz\u0103 \u00een vorbe frumoase \u0219i se serve\u0219te pe stomacul gol prin expresia \u201ce doar diferen\u021ba dintre genera\u021bii\u201d, fapt incontestabil care este universal acceptat cu o compasiune morbid\u0103.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Este totu\u0219i adev\u0103rat, c\u0103 mediul are un impact groaznic de mare asupra devenirii umane, \u00eens\u0103 acest aspect se omite de cele mai multe ori \u0219i se ajunge tot la inferioritatea n\u0103scut\u0103 dintr-un respect reciproc c\u0103ruia nu-i rezi\u0219ti \u0219i pe care \u00eel internalizezi, cre\u00e2nd o imagine de-adev\u0103ratelea hidoas\u0103 a vie\u021bii de adult. Frica aceasta are o latur\u0103 moral\u0103 \u0219i totodat\u0103 una fizic\u0103, \u00eens\u0103 anxietatea cauzat\u0103 de ideea c\u0103 ai putea \u0219i tu \u00eentr-o zi oarecare, s\u0103 ajungi s\u0103 reprezin\u021bi incon\u0219tient tot ceea ce te deranjeaz\u0103, devine un factor de risc. Pe partea material\u0103 te intrig\u0103 mai mereu \u0219tirile \u0219i modul \u00een care oamenii care te conduc \u00ee\u021bi fur\u0103 c\u00e2te pu\u021bin \u00een fiecare moment, schimonosindu-\u0219i fe\u021bele peste care au trecut destui ani, care ulterior trec inevitabil \u0219i prin tine.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Singur\u0103tatea \u00een via\u021ba adultului pare a fi \u00een mare parte \u00eentr-un crescendo fatidic mai ales c\u00e2nd observi c\u0103 majoritatea umbl\u0103 cu indiscre\u021bii \u0219i vorbe de prost gust pentru a c\u00e2\u0219tiga o curs\u0103 la care \u00ee\u021bi propui s\u0103 nu te \u00eenhami. De\u0219i familia \u00een care te na\u0219ti are o imagine de ansamblu pus\u0103 cap la cap, se concretizeaz\u0103 \u00een timp o lume ce te desprinde de puful \u00een care e\u0219ti inevitabil acuzat c\u0103 ai crescut, \u0219i astfel se ajunge la o lume redus\u0103 la c\u00e2teva persoane pe care \u00eencerci s\u0103 nu le pierzi. Observi cu timpul c\u0103 prietenii oamenilor mai mari ca tine se destram\u0103 \u0219i ei \u00een familile lor, accentu\u00e2nd obsesia societ\u0103\u021bii de a te l\u0103sa pe cont propriu, iar apoi r\u0103m\u00e2i cu ideea ca vei ajunge s\u0103 cari anii \u00een spate sigur sau mai r\u0103u, singur \u00eempreun\u0103 cu al\u021bii.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Societatea \u00een sine creeaz\u0103 dependen\u021ba de independen\u021b\u0103, menit\u0103 \u00een teorie s\u0103 te \u021bin\u0103 flasc departe de orice pericol ce te poate pune \u00eentr-o lumin\u0103 proast\u0103 \u00een ochii ei sticlo\u0219i. Inferioritatea se accentueaz\u0103 cu timpul, inevitabil ajung\u00e2nd s\u0103 fii inferior fa\u021b\u0103 de propriul sine pe care lumea te \u00eenva\u021b\u0103 s\u0103-l cultivi cum ar trebui, prin iluzii \u0219i minciuni. Nu putea fi totul o coinciden\u021b\u0103, mai ales c\u00e2nd viziunea asupra vie\u021bii se degradeaz\u0103 \u0219i devine un co\u0219mar discontinuu.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Dac\u0103 ai fi \u00eentrebat de p\u0103rerea ta legat\u0103 de lume, \u00een general ai sta s\u0103 te g\u00e2nde\u0219ti 2 secunde, iar apoi \u00ee\u021bi vor ap\u0103rea \u00een minte ni\u0219te fe\u021be care reprezint\u0103 \u00een mod concret lumea \u00een care tr\u0103ie\u0219ti. Cred c\u0103 \u00een toat\u0103 goana asta dup\u0103 vorbe frumoase se caut\u0103 de fapt, un mod de a evada dintr-o supap\u0103 intern\u0103 pervertit\u0103 de idealismul logistic pe care vr\u00e2nd nevr\u00e2nd, ajungi s\u0103 \u00eel accep\u021bi din cauza nevoii de a nu te sim\u021bi inferior, fa\u021b\u0103 de adul\u021bi, fa\u021b\u0103 de tine.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Toate acestea fiind spuse, antiteza \u00een care sunt privite conceptele de inferioritate \u0219i superioritate nu pare a fi tocmai necesar\u0103, pentru c\u0103 ele merg mai degrab\u0103 m\u00e2n\u0103 \u00een m\u00e2n\u0103 \u0219i caracterizeaz\u0103 condi\u021bia uman\u0103, nevoia de a fi. Toat\u0103 frica aceasta de a r\u0103m\u00e2ne \u00een urm\u0103 se trage din speran\u021ba c\u0103 suntem ni\u0219te oameni preg\u0103ti\u021bi pentru o lume pe care ne vedem nevoi\u021bi s\u0103 \u00eenv\u0103\u021b\u0103m s\u0103 o iubim.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ai 4 ani \u0219i ver\u0219i din gre\u0219eal\u0103 un bol mai mare ca \u021beasta ta direct pe canapeaua nou\u0103 din piele autentic\u0103. Ai 7 ani \u0219i \u00eenve\u021bi c\u0103 oamenii pot refuza s\u0103 se joace cu tine. Ai 12 ani \u0219i asi\u0219ti pentru prima oar\u0103 la o b\u00e2rf\u0103 bine detaliat\u0103, imediat dup\u0103 masa de Cr\u0103ciun la care [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":17,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-247","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-social"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/rotarytransilvania.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/247","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/rotarytransilvania.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/rotarytransilvania.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rotarytransilvania.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/17"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rotarytransilvania.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=247"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/rotarytransilvania.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/247\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":370,"href":"https:\/\/rotarytransilvania.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/247\/revisions\/370"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/rotarytransilvania.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=247"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rotarytransilvania.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=247"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rotarytransilvania.ro\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=247"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}